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Elizabeth Hamilton-Guarino Companies
Jul 19, 2017

THE JOY OF JOY

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Edited: Jul 20, 2017

 

Nothing brings me greater joy than seeing joyful people enhancing their happiness by making ethical decisions. "Joy" is the one of the most precious & cherished words we say and feel. There are many appropriate synonyms, but I especially love the character of people who choose to use this simple three-letter word to express their happiness. The incredible Make-A-Wish Foundation chose "joy" as one of their three inspiring words to officially describe what children with life-threatening illnesses feel as a result of being granted a special wish. It is common to hear exemplary parents use "joy" to describe the enormous happiness they feel while ethically raising their exemplary children. I have found that "joy" users are kind, compassionate and peace-loving. Throughout our lives, we are ultimately confronted with numerous ethical or non-ethical fork in the road type decisions. I am amazed how often, and under what circumstances, I see "joy" users naturally choose the ethical path. There are countless examples I can think of to explain my joy/ethical link analysis. I would like to discuss just one heartwarming example that I recently encountered while living my joyous life.

 

I was recently on line at the grocery store. I was purchasing a few in-season summer melons. An elderly woman in front of me said, "Those are the sweetest melons you will ever taste. Enjoy!" She was as happy as happy can be. With a huge smile on her face, she picked up an item that had dropped out of one of the bags from the departing customer in front of her and handed it to the grateful man. As she received her change, she complimented the cashier on how she loved the cashier's European accent. She then did something I had not seen in years. She returned a nickel after realizing she was handed five cents more than she should have received. One simple act. One fascinating insight into the soul of a happy, ethically connected human. The cashier looked surprised, but appreciative. I had to say something right there and then, so I did. "Excuse me, but that was a really nice thing you just did." She replied, "I used to be a cashier. I know the drawer must be correct to the penny at the end of each shift. It gives me such joy to do what's right." I noticed the nearby employees and customers all simultaneously smiled. One small act. One large impact. As this amazing woman walked away, I couldn't help but think of all the lives she positively affected in her life and all the joy and kindness she will instinctively share in her future travels.

Imagine a world in which every person allowed their inner and outer happiness to guide their every act. Imagine a world in which coveted Hallmark words come to life for all, not just on special occasions, but in every day situations. Imagine the joy. #14All

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