There is something we learn very early in life that can quietly follow us well into adulthood: wait to be chosen. We wait to be picked for the team, chosen for the part, accepted into the school, invited to the party, selected for the position, or recognized for something we've done. As adults, the circumstances change, but the behavior doesn't always change with them. We wait to be offered the promotion, asked to speak, invited onto the show, signed by the publisher, selecte