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How to Get Back on Track After a Long Break

By Elizabeth Hamilton-Guarino

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After a long holiday or extended time away from your usual schedule, it can take a while to find your footing again. The rhythm that once felt natural may feel distant. The calendar looks full, your inbox might feel overwhelming, and your mind could be wondering where to even begin.


You are not alone. Every single one of us needs to step away sometimes, and every one of us needs a peaceful way to return. Getting back on track is not about rushing. It is about returning to presence and remembering what matters most.

Here are some simple, loving ways to guide yourself back into flow and focus.


1. Begin with Presence, Not Pressure

When you come back from a break, it can be tempting to jump immediately into work or daily responsibilities. You may feel behind or pressured to make up for lost time. The truth is that rushing only creates more stress. The most powerful way to begin again is through presence.


Before opening your computer or tackling a to-do list, take a few minutes to settle yourself. Breathe deeply. Stretch your body. Sit with a cup of coffee or tea and give yourself permission to simply be here.


Ask yourself: “What truly needs my attention first?”

That single question helps shift your mindset from overwhelm to awareness. When you begin from a place of calm attention, you naturally make wiser choices about how to use your time and energy.


Presence is the quiet gateway back to peace. Once you reconnect with that stillness, you can rebuild your rhythm one peaceful step at a time.

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2. Reconnect with Priorities That Matter

After a holiday or break, it can feel as if every task is important. Instead of listing everything that comes to mind, create a Re-Entry List.


Try this simple structure:

  • Three things that must move forward today

  • Three things that can wait until midweek

  • Three things that can wait until next week


This approach prevents the sense of drowning in unfinished work and reminds you that not everything requires immediate attention. You are allowed to ease back in.

Getting back on track does not mean doing everything at once. It means doing what truly matters with full presence and care.


3. Reconnect with People

Peace thrives in connection. After being away, take a few moments to reach out to people who are part of your daily or professional life. Send a brief text or email to a friend, client, or colleague. It can be as simple as:

“I hope you had a wonderful holiday. I am getting back into the flow this week and look forward to reconnecting soon.”

These small gestures carry energy. They rebuild momentum and help you feel reintegrated into the rhythm of community. When we reconnect intentionally, we remind ourselves that we do not have to do life alone.


Relationships are the threads that keep peace woven into the fabric of our days.

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4. Reestablish Your Rhythms

Breaks often interrupt our normal habits and self-care routines. That is perfectly okay. Rather than trying to return to everything at once, start with one small routine that grounds you.


Maybe it is your morning gratitude list. Maybe it is your daily walk, five minutes of meditation, journaling, or simply lighting a candle and breathing before the day begins.


Choose one ritual that brings you back to yourself.

If you usually write an Elizabeth's Best 4-4-4-4 journal entry or prepare a daily affirmation, begin again gently. Peaceful consistency creates stability. Intensity fades, but consistency transforms.


Remember, you do not need to rush to rebuild every rhythm. You only need to choose one, and then another, and let peace meet you there.


5. Revisit Your “Why”

One of the most grounding ways to return from a break is to remember why you do what you do. Purpose brings clarity.


Open The Change Guidebook, The Success Guidebook, or any resource that connects you to your deeper meaning. Reread a section that speaks to your heart. Remind yourself of your values, your calling, and your goals.


When you reconnect with purpose, decisions become easier. It is no longer about checking boxes or pushing through. It becomes about moving with intention.


Ask yourself:

“What impact do I want to have this week?”

“What will bring me closer to the life I am creating?”


Peace is not found in the volume of what we accomplish, but in the alignment of what we choose to do.

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6. Give Yourself Grace

If you are feeling tired, distracted, or unsure, give yourself grace. You are human. Every new season brings transition, and every transition takes energy.

Grace allows you to move at a human pace instead of a mechanical one. It reminds you that presence is more powerful than perfection.


Take breaks, drink water, and rest your mind when you need to. The goal is not to “catch up.” The goal is to show up.


As we say in The Peace Guidebook, “Grace is love’s quiet power, mending what words cannot.”


Let that truth guide you as you navigate your return.


7. Rebuild Momentum with Intention

Once you begin to find your rhythm again, move slowly but deliberately. Celebrate small wins. Notice progress rather than perfection.

Momentum is built through kindness, not criticism.


Each peaceful action reinforces the next. One clear decision. One email sent with gratitude. One phone call handled with patience. These small acts add up to big shifts in energy.


If you stumble or get off track again, simply begin again. Peace is always available in the next breath.


8. Remember, You Are Already Back

Often we imagine that getting “back on track” means achieving something monumental or catching up on everything we missed. In reality, the moment you choose awareness, you are already back.


Every conscious breath, every kind thought, every gentle re-entry step is a victory.

You are not starting from zero. You are starting from experience.

Take what you learned during your time away — the rest, the laughter, the quiet, the reflection — and let it inform how you live now. Peaceful progress is always built from gratitude.



Take a few moments today to write or think about these questions:

  1. What one small action will help me feel grounded today?

  2. Which part of my daily rhythm do I most want to restore?

  3. Who could I reconnect with to bring more joy and momentum into my week?

  4. What did my time away teach me about what truly matters?


Reflection transforms returning into realignment.

Coming back from a long break is not about pressure. It is about presence.

You do not need to make up for lost time. You only need to be present for the time you have now. When you begin from awareness and grace, peace naturally follows.

So breathe deeply. Smile at the day in front of you. Take one kind action that moves you forward. You are already doing it. You are already back on track.




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Elizabeth Hamilton-Guarino is the CEO of The Best Ever You Network and the author of The Change Guidebook, The Success Guidebook, and co-author of The Peace Guidebook. She is also the co-founder of The Percolate Peace Project, a global movement encouraging people to live with greater hope, healing, and harmony.

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